One of the scariest questions I had during my path to sobriety was: How will I celebrate ANYTHING? How will I toast at my wedding?
Am I allowed to celebrate anymore ever?!
I was married for the first time in 2005, I was young, figuring out my career and had spent the previous 2 years as a bartender. So I had my best bartender friend (hi ash!) write us a signature cocktail. Seventeen years later, all I can remember is that it was called “The True Love”, had a champagne floater and I drank many of them.
My young bride self preparing myself to drink heavily.
The name of that drink rang true, because what I was really in love with was the alcohol. I wasn’t able to love myself, let alone anyone else at that time. Alcohol was my true love, it was the celebration. I had the ability to turn a Monday afternoon into a celebration, because of booze.
I’ve come to learn over time and with therapy, yes, those that are alcohol free do celebrate! It has also come to light that we celebrate harder because we are fully present in the moment. This month, in honor of Paul Churchill getting married, I’m dedicating this mocktail to his bride. A reinvention of The True Love because this time, it actually is true love.
The True Love: Pineapple Basil Lemonade (AF)
Prep time: 30 minutes + cooling time
- 1 pineapple, cored, chopped & divided
- 1 T cinnamon
- 1⁄2 cup fresh lemon juice
- 2 T honey
- 10 basil leaves
- 2 1/2 cups pineapple water (see below)
Boil 3 cups water, add pineapple peel, rough chopped and cinnamon. Boil 20 minutes, strain liquid through sieve. Allow to cool.
To make the drink
1- In a blender place the pineapple, pineapple water, lemon juice & honey. Blend until smooth.
2- Add in basil and pulse a few times to chop up the basil.
Garnish with pineapple if you want!
Love and Mocktails,
Love your suggetions !
This is dumb you should not be in recovery drinking mocktails addiction is a behavior not an actual relapse! Jeez who rights this stuff!!! If your in recovery a ginger ale will do where’s the willingness?
Hey Mike, thanks for the comment. If you’re triggered by a Mocktail, then this isn’t for you. However, many are looking for other alcohol-free options, and mocktails don’t send them into a downward spiral of addiction. 👍
Bashing and being rude to someone for continuing to be sober is way more harmful than them drinking a mocktail. She can do sobriety however she chooses so long as at the end of the day, she didn’t pick up alcohol.
This is so yummy!!! Thanks for the recipe and the reflection!
This looks amazing and I can not wait to make it with the kids!